Assalamu Alaykum Lovelies,
Here are some Cardinal Rules of Life that I follow. Yes. I’ve slipped BUT I’ve learnt my lesson.
- Have your own
- Make your own money
- Never let anyone do anything for you including favours, even if they offer
- Be independent
- Never let anyone throw in your face what they did for you. (this won’t happen if you follow my cardinal rules of life.
- Never slip like I did. Because when it comes down to it, you will have that stuff thrown back in your face, even if they offered and they will make you feel like absolute shit even though you didn’t ask for anything.
One of my favourite all time quotes I live by are “I’d rather struggle for everything that I got than have someone tell me you wouldn’t have that if it wasn’t for me.
People wonder why Im always preaching to have your own. This is the reason. There will be people there to offer their assistance or help or come up with ideas to further you or an idea, HOWEVER, they will forever and always be used against you. Don’t do that to yourself. It’s one of the worst feelings in the world. People LOVE to take advantage of people who are in need and use it against them in the end. Wear your crown and handle your business by yourself. You do NOT need anyone except those who care about you the most and God.